Think about why you joined Lemmy. Reddit has been getting greedier and greedier, so you left to a place where the grass is greener. The same thing is true with Windows and Linux (and Linux is also much more big and mature than Lemmy). It attracts the same kind of people.
Where my friend lives, in a typical American suburb:
(These feel like clues to Jet Lag: the Game - Hide and Seek…)