Rule 5. Locking.
Rule 5. Locking.
Have you tried meditation?
On another note, your question is how to stop worrying but reading between the lines I get the feeling you are also asking how to get her to come home.
If so, she’s 20 and therefore an adult. So your role needs to be as a trusted advisor rather than rule maker. Have you tried discussing your fears with her in a way that makes it clear that a) ultimately what she does is her decision to make, and b) you will love her regardless of what decision she makes? She’s much more likely to listen if she feels that you are trying to provide alternate perspectives for her to weigh and balance without trying to control the outcome.
I’m going to lock this post now as the comments keep straying into US Politics.
This rule applies only to the AskLemmy community. A ban on US politics posts in AskLemmy makes sense for several reasons:
US politics tends to dominate many online spaces already, drowning out other valuable discussions.
Political discussions, especially about US politics, often become heated and polarized quickly, which can detract from the thoughtful, contemplative atmosphere that open-ended questions are meant to foster. When people discuss US politics, they tend to take hardened positions rather than engaging in genuine exploration of ideas.
US political discussions often fall into predictable patterns and talking points, which goes against the spirit of having thought-provoking questions. The same debates tend to play out repeatedly, offering little new insight or opportunity for meaningful reflection.
A community focused on open-ended questions should ideally have a global perspective. US political discussions can make the space feel less welcoming to non-US users who might have fascinating questions and perspectives to share about their own cultures, philosophies, and experiences.
There are other communities whose purpose better aligns with discussions about US politics.
People need some communities where they can engage with others and NOT have to see or think about the recent election.
Nobody wants every community to be a free-for-all about every topic. Please feel free to discuss US politics in a relevant community about the US, about politics, or about world news.
AskLemmy is not the community for US politics. Locking.
Not an open ended question. Locking.
AskLemmy is not the right community for US politics. Locking.
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Bobby Fingers
Irreverent movie prop maker who builds diorama’s with a dressing of Irish humour.
Primitive Technology
Makes houses, tools etc, starting from just his hands and natural resources. No knife. No axe. No rope. No tarps. No dialogue.
Kraut
Does videos on history and culture. Helped me understand why Russian culture is the way it is. In-depth, informative and interesting.
They are? I was under the impression that they were full transformers.
AskLemmy is not the community for posts about US politics. Locking.
OP, this belongs in a support community (see rule 5). Locking.
Ask your community members how they want it moderated. You may not get agreement, but you should get a feel for the vibe of it. 😁
Rule 5. Locking.
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Not an open-ended thought provoking question. Locking.
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Not an open-ended question. Locking.