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  • Devi@kbin.socialtoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.worldDaughters and Fathers
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    2 months ago

    My dad never spent time with me because we didn’t share hobbies, I tried desperately as a kid to get into what he liked, but he never tried to get into what I liked. My mom knew the names of the kids on Barney, what snacks cheered me up, or what friends I had in school, my dad also lived in the house.

    As adults we’ve found common ground in politics and TV, and we have a relationship now, but we’d have a much better relationship if he’d tried to hang out with me back then.

    So I guess my advice is just hang out with her, whatever form that takes. Time is so important.






  • Not attractive at all to me. I don’t mind if a guy is toned, but muscular is really unattractive to me. The thing with attraction is that it’s individual, and I know some women who would love this look, I tend to like geeky guys, but I have friends who like big guys, bald guys, short guys, skinny guys, attraction is just super individual.







  • You will find a more reliable sit by leading a dog into it rather than trying to move their body for them. The dog needs to move its own body in order for the movement and the word to join together in their brain.

    Think about your own learning, is it better for you to learn a task by someone guiding your hands into position or is it better for them to model a behaviour and you to do it yourself? Which method means that you’ll remember tomorrow, next week, next month, etc?



  • Socialisation is the most important thing you’ll do with a dog, even if they’re an adult you need to get them used to as many things as possible so they can live a calm life.

    Learn dog body language, so many people get into issues because they can’t tell their dog is stressed, or in pain, This is my favourite guide, but you can also learn for free online.

    If you’re causing your dog pain then you’re not training their minds and setting you both up for failure. Find a different way to get what you want.

    Most issues people have with their dog is because they’re not getting the correct physical or mental exercise.

    Understand the breed you have as it will teach you how to make your dog comfortable.