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Cake day: March 18th, 2025
  • Mallspice@lemm.eetoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world•*Permanently Deleted*English
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    3 days ago

    Abusive ex didn’t let you fucking sit? That’s a lot to unravel and the likely source of your trouble. Like if you have anxiety or trouble relaxing physically or mentally you should talk to a therapist about it and do some research. I also recommend doing light and soft exercise like yoga and stretching to help with you blood flow and legs. Improving that seems tricky but very doable with some time, focus, and kindness.

  • Mallspice@lemm.eetoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world•*Permanently Deleted*English
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    3 days ago

    No it’s not normal.

    How are you eating habits affected? Is your skin more pale or yellow? Are you overworking consistently? You ever take a vacation, maybe recently? Do you drink or smoke regularly? Have you been hiking or exposed to a lot of insects lately? Do you eat a lot of sugar and have a family history of diabetes?

    It could be a lot of things, but I’m betting you’re doing something wrong habit wise and it’s just starting to catch up with, or a nasty tic bit you.

  • Mallspice@lemm.eetoFediverse@lemmy.world•The best thing you can do for the fediverse is just be kindEnglish
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    8 days ago

    That’s a positive perspective.

    I’ve seen a lot of that in leftists spaces lately, way more cautious of it now.

    Engagement may not be great but it wins. Imo fediverse needs engagement to live long term but maybe doesn’t need toxicity for it, but addiction is inherently a little toxic.

    Yes we should be thoughtful, not everyone is unfortunately.

    How fucking dare you seek genuine humanity online. lol

    I think letting people say anything (with obvious bannable exceptions like abuse, threats of violence, death, rape, and cp) helps, that fact checking or being wrong should not be bannable, and that people should be given more ways to conflict with each other but in a way that spurns creative debate not pure hostility but that pure hostility has real value to show people whether or not they should change and shouldn’t be shut down outright. Like commenting ‘fuck you’ should be allowed anywhere but not ‘fuck you go kys’ because it’s destructive not constructive; like if people with unpopular opinions weren’t allowed to silence dissent, they’d actually change their opinions and do better.