they are also much nicer people in my experience. at least, in that they treat me nicer than non-crazy women do.

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personally i find any and all music to be deeply upsetting. even tonal speech gives me anxiety.

i like my noises like my fonts, monotone and monospaced.

dated women i met on reddit.

they were all super weirdo psychos. one of had a breakdown at me that her dad wouldn’t buy her a porsche. another was doing fertility treatments and kept asking me if i’d raise/pay for her child. another refused to eat but drank like a fish. another was a weapons designer and like got off on her missiles blowing up brown people. i had several other women approach me too on reddit once they saw a photo i had posted in my history. after those mistakes i basically just started ignoring all the PMs.

they were all very good in bed though. way more than non-reddit women. but they also all had zero empathy for other human beings and had psychopathic behaviors.

No.

I don’t understand people who are upset by fictional works. It’s fiction.

most onlyfan models are just sitting in their bedroom in different outfits and flirting with subscribers via messages/vids.

the really successful ones have fulltime staff to do this for them.

some of the ‘amateur’ stuff has higher production quality, crazy bodies, and crazy sex acts, than the pros.

a lot of the amateur these days that is popular seems to be done by bored trust fund millionaire types. personally one woman I know who did do porn… that was precisely her situation. she did it for fun and paid for her own shoots. then would have ‘fans’ take her on vacations across the globe to 5 star resorts for 5-6 figure price tags.

she basically did porn not for money, but as a way to advertise her body for sex trips from very wealthy men. she probably made more ‘profit’ than anyone short of the pro porn stars.

yep.

but for some reason sex workers argue that they have ‘no other choice’. usually under the guise that sex work pays higher wages than service work available to them. maybe it does, but it’s still a choice and plenty of people do not pursue sex work despite it being a choice they could make.

I notice this whipped out when people try to argue with you that you need to pay streams/onlyfans types who put out their content for free. I mean, it’s cool if you pay for porn and are proud of it, but it’s stupid/shitty to try and shame others into doing so.

it’s also why a lot of people grow better/more being single than in relationships.

a lot of people in relationships don’t want their partner to change or grow because they fear that change or growth will devalue them and their role in the relationship.

yeah that’s a shitty/toxic relationship and you need to get out ASAP. Your life will become so much better single than in a relationship with someone who makes you feel like crap constantly.

especially if it’s a person who feels like crap constantly and blames you for it. which is usually the root of the problem… their expectation that you solve their problems for them.

now, if the problem is you feel like crap and blame your partner for not solving your issues for you, you are the one with the issues.

i can’t really tell the difference between bots and idiots who are pushing an agenda/astroturfing. is there really functionally any difference for the end user?

it’s quite different from the perceptive of an admin, for sure.

they are paid to be nice to you.

stay in a hotel and you’ll get the same treatment

yeah i have never heard of ayn rand being required school reading.

animal farm, yes. that’s typically a 10th grade book

i feel like i’m the only person in this thread who never knew anyone dumb enough to read that crap, let alone enjoy it or think it’s great.

must be nice. never had that experience. been hospitalized a few times and nobody showed up, not even family. they just called and told me i was a selfish jerk for getting sick/hurt.

that’s what most erotica is like. and yeah it basically is a magic wizard porn fest after the first book.

because it’s basically erotica

Vonnegut and Haruki Murakami.

I read three books by each author and was shocked at how boring/bad/repetitive they were. I will never understand why people are so obsessed with these authors. I guess they just like the simplistic/repetitive stuff they do. I probably would have liked them when I was 16, but I read them as a 30 year old adult.

pretty much. that’s why if you have a few million you can pretty much buy a visa/residency for any country.

Porn is just another tool. People use it in lots of different ways.

Way too many people generalize it’s use by other people, mostly because of the shame around sex and sexual identity.

But that’s also true of any media or medium. Tons of people still shame TV or video games as evil/bad inherently. And judge others consumption but feel victimized when they are judged for their consumption preferences.