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  • Do you have the capacity to recognize how selfish it is to continually elicit sympathetic well thought out answers from people only to shoot them down? I doubt you are a bad person; but you are acting in bad faith. The least you could do is just thank people for their responses. Show appreciation for their effort and skip all your reasons why their suggestions don’t work.












  • Along with all the great answers being supplied about what to do to be out there in the world, what you are proposing can’t be overstated; I would make explicit in that to take an ongoing frank look at how you show up in life

    Idk about OP here, but with so many similar posts I notice, for instance, people who basically blame others, or wallow in a woe is me attitude, all the while putting down any suggestions floated their way. We are the common denominator in our own lives. Learning to be honest about our role in things is crucial