Maybe Fairphone (Netherlands) with /e/OS (Google free Android from France).

Sadly no-one can tell you that as it is your decision based on your morals and your beliefs. It’s a hard decision, one that I also had to make. The question is, what is harder and more painful: losing this friend or being friends with someone who is like this.

Wish you all the strength you need to get through this.

Ever heard the saying, „Your freedom ends where someone else’s begins“?

Exactly. Don’t give them a platform