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Hearing damage is part of the concert experience though. If you don’t leave with mild tinnitus did you really even go?
Hearing damage is part of the concert experience though. If you don’t leave with mild tinnitus did you really even go?
I feel you. My ex-fiancee broke up with me on Thanksgiving while we were driving home. it will sting, but you have to accept that it happened first before anything else. You can’t control others, so even though it might have come out of nowhere, you can’t blame yourself entirely.
Consider and think critically about any reasons they told you to decide if it’s something you need change. Think about the relationship itself and if you were content. My ex broke up with me for being unable to constantly mask my autism, seemed to feel bad for it after realizing the same thing, and then truly ended the relationship after I forgot to clean a dish 2 months later. Like yea, I definitely need to be better about remembering to do dishes, but I will never apologize for being autistic. Could you believe that I wasn’t content in a relationship where my partner would get upset at me for reasons I don’t understand? By the time I moved out of the apartment in March, I was already done grieving. Imo, if someone you thought you could marry breaks up suddenly and with little reason, they were too disrespectful to deserve you.
Finally, after the fallout, you need to rediscover who you are for yourself. You’ve likely been emotionally reliant on that person, which is ok, but now you need to sort out who you are after growing from that relationship. I’ve been going for long walks every day, listening to audiobooks. I’ve been reconnecting with college friends who I lost touch with during the relationship. I chose to treat myself with an expensive gadget. I’ve been leaning into my activism. You get to choose for you and yourself what to do with your free time, with no reason to coordinate with someone that may be uninterested.
It’s intimidating, but being united in a cause is a pretty powerful force. It brings focus to the energy everyone has and directs it collectively. I was extremely shy and not comfortable with confrontation or being approached at work. Over the course of 2.5 years of organizing and being outspoken, I still like my space but none of that is true about me now. I never knew how to just talk to people at work, but now I’ve gotten pretty good at talking to people I’ve never even met before and can get pretty comfortable with folks I’m closer to.
Everything is a process. Having focus for the purposes of being together is a very strong social lubricant. From there you might find personalities you don’t like, but you’re much more likely to find some friends.
I’m a firm believer in friends through building solidarity. I helped organize a union at my workplace, and became a steward. Being united in struggle has brought me closer to the people around me. If you’re too nervous for that, volunteer for a local cause you care about. If there aren’t any, start organizing your community.
The biggest ram usage factor is going to be your browser. Beyond that, my first impression is that the browser version of lemmy is far more resource efficient since there’s no ads
I think a background formatting algorithm sounds like a great all day side project
I just use the latest version of Firefox. You can edit PDFs easier than anything else I’ve tried in the past
It’s stainless steel so it’s just surface level, but yes lmao it wasn’t treated for outdoor use
That’s pretty cool! My immediate reaction to hearing “minimal backup DE for troubleshooting” is wondering why that isn’t far more common
genuinely curious since I’ve never tried or even considered it. What happens when you have multiple desktops installed, and assuming it doesn’t cause issues why would a person want to do that?
Yep, have this one committed to memory. Though if it asked me to uncompress a tarball, then I’d be fucked
the ‘O’ in REPORT feels like a directive to block, rather than do what you feel you need to avoid being brought into the issue. I’m sure if I put a few minutes into it I could come up with a recommendation on how to change it, but I’m emotionally exhausted today.
Possibly, but it not impossible they meant no politics. I just ended a long term relationship with someone that viewed any political engagement at all as not worth their time. Including a picket line that I had helped organize.
In my eyes, there is no avoiding politics. Ignorance is bliss, knowledge is power, and choosing ignorance means choosing to ignore something that directly affects you. I feel I need to know what’s happening in politics, so I can know when and how I can be most effective with direct action. Part of understanding what I see in the news also requires an in-depth understanding of history and other seemingly innocuous news stories, so I have the appropriate historical knowledge to understand how and why it affects politics. Staying informed also protects me from being manipulated by politicians and the specific news I consume.
Chocolate covered raisins. I will singlehandedly demolish half a pound if I don’t watch it
Yes, but usually it only happens because something that shouldn’t have caused a negative reaction, does.
Bug fixes can be delayed for a security sweep. One of the quicker ways that come to mind is checking the hash between built from source and the tarball
Yes, and the moment this broke other project maintainers are working on finding exploits now. They read the same news we do and have those same concerns.
Actually I’m also the weird friend that uses hearing protection lol all my friends tell me that. I still have tinnitus and plenty of hearing damage from not doing that when I was younger though