jointhefediverse.net seems to be a commonly linked resource for directing people to join the Fediverse.
Curiously, it does not list Lemmy under the list of Reddit alternatives. Their GitHub README explains why.
Previous relevant discussion: https://lemmy.ml/post/78808
And with their current pace, it seems likely they never will. There’s been no major development on it for months as far as I can see.
Yes, same feeling