• ShittyBeatlesFCPres@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    I was very young when I thought I was an adult. I was wrong and got in trouble for sassmouth but I definitely thought I was an adult at like age 7.

    To give a serious answer, though, probably at 15 when I had a real, legal job and a car and stuff. I grew up fairly poor and was already just an independent kid. I had been earning money mowing lawns and refereeing soccer and stuff. But once I could legally work, I got a kitchen job and childhood was over pretty quick. At that point, I sort of was an adult. I lived with my mom (because I legally had to) but I had car insurance bills and a paycheck and shit. I had to do taxes. I couldn’t wait to turn 18 and not need my mom’s signature for things.

    I know that’s weird but some kids are just like that. I remember when we all went to college, I was so ready to launch that it came as a shock to me when some of my friends were homesick and confused.

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        The United States. I think most places allow employment at around that age (and even younger for certain jobs). https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Legal_working_age

        They actually raised the driving age in my state right after I got my license. When I got mine (late 90’s), we just needed to be 15 and take the driving test. My younger sister is only a few years younger and she had to wait longer and do a whole process of getting a learner’s permit where she couldn’t drive alone at night or something.

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        Which country legally allows child labor and driving at 15?

        I’m not @ShittyBeatlesFCPres, but New Zealand did when I was 15, and I’m sure it’s far from the only country like that. They have since raised it to 16.

        When I was 15 we could legally leave school, work during school hours (younger kids could work but only after school), drive a car, have a gun licence. 16 was the age of consent, 18 was the age of signing legal contracts and drinking in bars (all children can legally drink alcohol in New Zealand, just not in bars and they can’t buy it).

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      I remember when we all went to college, I was so ready to launch that it came as a shock to me when some of my friends were homesick and confused.

      That happened to me too. Some of them were living in student accommodation that provided meals and had a curfew. I just couldn’t understand why anyone would live like that but I see now it was a sort of ‘training wheels’ stage for them.