Hi everyone!

I am F21. I have a boyfriend (M20). We are in relationship approximately 1 month (before that we was best friends for 7 or even more years).

We have a lot in common an I really love him (and as I know he too).

We started dating as I accidentally saw my photo on his laptop (I already liked him). After asking him what was that he told me that he liked me for a long time and was afraid to tell me that.

As our personalities - we are typical “otaku” (anime nerds), so we always had hanged out together in the past.

Now everything fine, I really like him, but I am bothered about him being trembling every single time I am close. I know for sure that I am the only one he likes to talk (we are both extremely quiet personalities) and we are together 99% of time. And this happens only if I take his hand or hug him.

I don’t want to ask him about this because I afraid he will get ashamed of this.

Should I worry?

  • Tigress@lemmy.world
    5·
    8 months ago

    I don’t want to ask him about this because I afraid he will get ashamed of this.

    But the key to any good, strong, healthy relationship is comunication. All we can do is take our best guess as what’s going on, you won’t actually know though, until you talk to him. If you want this relationship to work, you(both) need to get comfortable communicating even when it’s awkward or dificult.