For LGBTQ+ folks who want to blend in, what tips or advice can you give?

  • tomi000@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    How would anyone know your sexual orientation if you dont specifically do things to show it?

    Like, dont grab another mans/womans ass in public, dont talk about nice dicks/boobs you saw in a magazine. Dont act like what people generally associate with the other sex (this one might be difficult if your interests lie in those fields). I think homosexuals that stand out a lot are usually aware of it and like to act it out.

    • stinky@redlemmy.comOP
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      I think homosexuals that stand out a lot are usually aware of it and like to act it out.

      What a pedestrian view of your own culture. Sad.

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        Not sure what you mean. There are definitely homosexuals that show it openly and get into a kind of ‘role’, actively acting out the cliches, no need to deny that. I know many gay men and for most you wouldnt notice if you didnt know them, but some are very extravagant and thats their thing.